If you’re a guy that is stuck in the idea that a woman “should” feel attracted to a “nice guy”, then your first step is to open your eyes, and take a look around at some of the OBVIOUS patterns that are hidden right in PLAIN SIGHT around you.
1) There are a lot of guys who are average looking, average height, average income, etc. who have ABOVE average success with women.
2) The “nicest” guys aren’t usually the ones that women are attracted to.
3) There are a lot of men who are truly “bad boys” who get FAR more than their share of women.
4) We humans, for the most part, are not in control of our “attraction mechanisms”… in other words, when we are attracted to someone else, it takes control of us and there’s NOTHING WE CAN DO ABOUT IT.
I have a simple exercise that I’d like you to try right now:
Take your computer mouse and turn it 180 degrees clockwise. Turn it so the end closes to you is now furthest from you, and the furthest part is closest.
Now try to use the mouse to move the pointer around on your screen.
At first, it doesn’t make any sense… it’s backwards and upside down. But as you play with it a bit, you start to get used to it, and you can move around pretty quickly.
Now try using it with it turned only 90 degrees one way or another. This is much harder. But with some practice you can do it.
Learning to make women feel attraction for you is much the same way. At first it DOESN’T SEEM TO MAKE ANY SENSE AT ALL. But the more you practice, the more you start to see that even though it isn’t logical IT DOES HAVE A PATTERN AND A METHODOLOGY TO IT.
As a matter of fact, I’ve realized that once you learn this set of behaviors that “pushes the attraction button” inside of women, you will start to see that women actually KNOW when they are dealing with a
man that understands this principle. Women instantly respond to men who “get it” and they INSTANTLY REJECT MEN WHO DON’T.
Just like moving an upside down mouse you must learn to do things that don’t come “naturally” to you.
But once you learn them you’ll have a skill that will create amazing results in your life.